Pay quiet attention to how a good player bids and plays the cards.
Observe how good partners communicate.
Note how well they 'bounce back' from a bad board...even great players have bad boards!
There are some Do's & Don'ts
Respectfully ask permission to kibitz.
Watch one player/set of hands.
Do not talk, signal or distract the players (even after the hand is over)
Do not 'crowd' the player. Give them a comfortable distance.
If you are asked to leave, be gracious and depart quietly.
At the end of the game, thank those at the table for allowing you to observe.
Bridge Courtesies
Be 15 minutes early to a game...time to register, greet friends and settle with your Partner at the table.
SETTING UP GAMES IS A DEMANDING TASK! Last minute and tardy arrivals are very difficult on Game Directors.
Settling down with Partner, confirming your basic Convention Card agreements and quieting oneself is a 'winning strategy'. Rushing around late and frazzled is not!
Making every other player in the room start late/finish late is disrespectful of others' time.
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Opening Leads: this is your top priority after the auction.
DO NOT stop and enter the contract into your score sheet until AFTER the Opening Lead is made.
Select the card, place it face down on the table, then ask if there are any questions.
You are entitled to a full review of the bidding.
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Call the Director!
If there is any issue that is not immediately resolvable, call the Director.
This is not an insult to others at the table.
Calling the Director promptly prevents ater-the-fact controversies.
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At the table: Compliment your Opponents...NOT your partner. Complimenting Partner is awkard and uncomfortable for Opponents. It's just not gracious.
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Resources
The ACBL HQ website has a great repository on their webpage "Learning"...ACBL Learning
There are scores of websites by bridge pros! Here are a just a few:
YouTube Videos (what DON'T they cover😂) also has recorded lessons. For example: unclear about Stayman....type in the search and up pops a dozen videos! YouTube Videos
BBO is a great resource. Watch their News for lessons. Work through their Bridge Master (under the tab for PRACTICE). BBO